Feedback from AEDP participants
In AEDP practice, the therapeutic relationship is the heart of therapy and required more attention and skills. I need to be more attentive to each moment of interchange with my clients. Their breath, affect, face, tone of voice, body movement and sensation all required detailed attention. Many times when I reviewed the taped counselling sessions, I found myself talking too much, making too much interpretation, trying too hard to make connections in what clients said with their emotions. Now I am learning to be less busy in my head, using less of my left brain to 'understand' my client or helping her to 'understand' herself. Instead, by moment-to-moment tracking and timely responding and attuning to client's emotions, I am learning to make room for securing client's attachment experience. Then client will be less anxious, more able to loosen up defenses and have more courage to go deeper into emotions. The corrective emotional experience will then lead to healing and transformation. I am glad that in some episodes of therapy session, I witnessed changes in my clients, shared their deep emotional experience and accompanied them in enduring painful moment as well as enjoying the peaceful moment after the stormy moment.
To me, AEDP is not a totally new set of theory and practice. It is more like an advance level of practice that I can build on. It opens up a new pathway for my practice where I often feel stuck in emotional engagement with clients and handicapped in mood regulation. It provides a solid roadmap to follow and to orientate the direction where therapy should be going. --- Heidi Tam (AEDP Level III Core Supervision Group graduate)